Focusing on what’s important.
LOL LOL LOL Liberals… She’s a woman, that’s called Chivalry… I do it regularly for women who are friends and family, while I myself am getting wet… Because that’s what real men do… We take the rain!
Real men can take the rain? You can take it back to the fucking 1950’s along with your gender roles you pig
Awww did I hurt somebody’s feewings?
Nope but you are a sexist fuckwit, I mean it’s not hurt feelings you’re just a tool is all
And you can clearly tell a tool from one conversation on tumblr, Being a gentleman does not translate to being sexist. It doesn’t mean that the man isn’t fully aware that a woman cannot hold her own umbrella. Its just that he cares enough about her to do it for her, to be kind and open the door, to help her out of the car if she wants it. It’s called being a nice and great man. That is the mark of a great man, who respects the woman he’s dating and wants to do nice things for her. And as someone who knows freeplanetickettonorthkorea so much better than you do, I can tell you he is anything but sexist.
Yes, according to feminists, chivalry is sexist and evil. I guess they would rather that men treat all women with disrespect and disregard. (They want this because that’s how men treat THEM because of their elitist attitudes). As for myself, I will treat women with the respect and deference owed to them by their special place in society; namely the people who make men’s (well, most men) lives complete.
Any woman who is not willing to accept respect and deference from men, doesn’t deserve it.
No, I’d rather just hold my own damn umbrella. You can treat people with respect without being sexist.
If a man offered to hold my umbrella for me, I’d say no, thank you… because while I appreciate the gesture, I’d rather do it on my own. If you think that’s wrong and disrespect me for that, you’re being sexist. I think you should take a long, hard look at what you just wrote and ask your mother if that’s how she meant to raise you.
I have yet to meet a single feminist, both in my personal life and on the internet, who says chivalry is “sexist and evil.” I’ve met plenty of feminists, however, who believe that men shouldn’t HAVE to hold the door/umbrella/whatever for women, but that we all should do these things for each other because it’s fucking COMMON COURTESY.
And yet for whatever reason I meet so many dudes (who are usually straight and cis) who insist that this is how feminists feel.
You are not sexist for holding open a door.
You are sexist because you’re going to “treat women with respect” because they “make (most) men’s lives complete.” That is severely fucked up on a lot of different levels. Not only are you being wicked heteronormative, you’re reducing women down to a sole function as it applies to men.
But I guess I don’t deserve any respect or deference from men, since I’m a lesbian and will probably not be making any man’s life complete.